Hi folks, In the past days I often heard the term "Good for you!" when I told people about positive things that happend to me. How exactly should one interprete this? Neutral, ironic or affirmative?
Over here we say: "good on ya" which is basically the same. You use it whenever someone tells you, that he/she has a new job, is going on a holiday, etc. Unlike the German "schoen fuer dich" I have never experienced the phrase being used in an ironic way. However, it is certainly not meant from deep down within (like AMR) mentioned. It's just a polite response.
it depends how somebody says it. When it is said with a smile and a rather upbeat tone of voice it is meant positive. If it is said in a flat kind of way it is meant superficial.
Generally speaking it is similar to saying "See ya"! It doesn't mean you will see that person again. Or: "Have a nice day!"
At first I was a bit confused as well. This kind of phrase might sound negative to us German speaking people, but it is nothing more then a phrase to make the other person feel good or give the impression you care about the other person. It has nothing to do with jealousy nor ment in a negative way either (and if so you probably wouldn't notice).
Thank you all. I might have thought of the German "Schoen fuer dich" that sounds of course kind of jealous and negative. So there´s nothing special about that term.
However what I really can't stand is "what's that?" if somebody doesn't understand you. Sounds to me as if the other person is not interested in what you're saying. I know it isn't meant that way though...